I caught the Lake House today. NOT at all a touching show, heck.

I am not really in a good mood, because the annoyance i got while watching the movie, combined with the thoughts i have been having recently that came from reading the blog of a lady who is getting married but has a sad past such as breaking up when the wedding date was already decided with the previous man made me realise that kids nowadays are some fucked up shits.

I agree that i am screwed too, i bug for the gadgets i want and all.

What i'm going to hit on today is about REALISM.

We are youths, we're not even 18, and here we are, talking about this 'love', that 'love', how hard it is to get over him/her/it, how painful the breakup was, how much we miss our ex-es and crushes, how much we feel like they're THE ONE.

HOW SURE CAN YOU BE? It is possible that it can start from secondary school all the way till you get married and procreate, but it is always good to be CAUTIOUS, and quite reasonably, realistic. Not every boy you date might be the one who'll sleep next to you after marriage, and it's NO POINT, NO FUCKING POINT, to harp on to whatever beliefs after the break up.

AND OF COURSE, NO showing your ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend whatever angry faces or horrible attitude, or doing things to her to please yourself. What you are showing is your immaturity,and it does not, i repeat, does not show your love for that ex-boyfriend/girlfriend at all.

We're STILL YOUNG.

So many dreams to pursue and goals to fulfill and think about.

Yet we're doing the things the adults do?

Isn't that a unjustified?